Posts by Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit

Good for you. My JW mother would look at a person in that man's situation and moan, 'oh how we need the new system' or something dumb like that. So while they're all longing for Candyland, we can try to do a natural, human kindness when we can!!

Sparkplug, you rock. Thanks for sharing this.

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guilt feelings sometimes

by amara in

i was raised as a jw from the age of 4, my father was an elder for 18 years, was a auxillary pioneer for years, been there done all that and decided to leave at age 30, i have chosen a pagan path and am very happy but sometimes i feel guilty for no reason, does anyone else ever have this problem?

if you do, how do you handle it?

Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit

Amara,

Welcome! Thanks for posting. AH. . .guilt, shame. . . the JW's chief weapon!

I only occasionally feel guilty about my lack of a relationship w/ my parents, but more often, I feel anger at them and the WT org. Anger is more productive, I think, it allows you to place the blame where it belongs, and that is not on yourself.

Glad you're here.

catfish

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I have to aux pioneer?

by thebiggestlie in

ok so apparently the gb has instutuited some kind of quota for aux pioneers for the month of april for the memorial or something.

so the pos wife came up to me yesterday and told me "every congregation needs at least 16 aux pioneers for the month of april.

you should can i count on you?

Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit

the biggest lie,

you have a great screen name.

good for you - conviction, bravery and conscience are what matters, many of us didn't know this until late in life.

bless u.

catfish

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Ever hear an experience at an assembly that you KNOW was slanted?

by Bonnie_Clyde in

i remember one at a district assembly.

a brother was being interviewed as to why he never chose over time work at his job.

he said he worked for a small printing company and that he was content with working regular hours.

Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit

Countless times. At the end of a particularly cheery one given by a blood-sucking pioneer in my hall, I said outloud, 'Well why doesn't someone throw her a treat already!!"

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What people say about JWs now. . .

by Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit in

jw
friends

while i was a hoho, i often told people that i was of the religion and therefore wouldn't do this or that (where's that llllonngggg list!

); even as a kid i believed that if i was ashamed of being a witness that jesus would be ashamed of me, and so, i witnessed whenever appropriate.

at work and at school, people almost always said something positive in return and i rarely, if ever, received criticism for it.

Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit

where's me wooden spoon!?

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My Personal Experiences thus far

by Ken O in

i was brought up around the "truth" as a child.

my parents studied some then later after they were divorced, we (mom, sis and i) moved in with my grandparents, who were inactive witnesses.

though inactive, they still touted all the wts lingo and doctrine.

Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit

Ken O,

Welcome. Enjoyed your post very much, thanks for telling your story. You'll get more support from this site than you'll know what to do with!

Kudos to you for your bravery and conviction.

catfish

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My reinstatment letter

by nonamegiven in

for those that don't know, here's the cliffs notes version.. i've been df'd for 5 months now for giving in to an addiction i have.

i want to be reinstated so i can gian my family and a few close friends back in my life then i will fade like a bad dye job.

here's the reinstatment letter i have thus far i am open to any input at all.. dear holier-than-thou brothers,.

Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit

Dear No Name Given,

I have heard many times that when you meet with elders to discuss reinstatement that you must cry, they won't believe you if you don't cry. But not too much, you don't want them to think that you're crazy or 'on an emotional kick' to get re-in.

Best of luck to you,

catfish

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Quick Birthday Question...

by esw1966 in

so, it was my daughter's birthday on the 2nd of february.. she is being raised jw and i sent her an email birthday card.. i get this note as a response: (mind you, it may be from her mother).

hey dad, .

i'm sorry i havent written you.

Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit

Ew! Sorry man, now THAT's not cool, asking for money! I'd put any cash in a college fund, that way she can't donate it to the whirledwhy'd verk.

Seriously, all you can do is reinforce to her what love means, that you'll love her no matter how you're treated.

Take care,

catfish

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What people say about JWs now. . .

by Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit in

jw
friends

while i was a hoho, i often told people that i was of the religion and therefore wouldn't do this or that (where's that llllonngggg list!

); even as a kid i believed that if i was ashamed of being a witness that jesus would be ashamed of me, and so, i witnessed whenever appropriate.

at work and at school, people almost always said something positive in return and i rarely, if ever, received criticism for it.

Pioneer Spit...oh, i mean Spirit

While I was a Hoho, I often told people that I was of the religion and therefore wouldn't do this or that (where's that LLLLONNGGGG list!); even as a kid I believed that if I was ashamed of being a witness that Jesus would be ashamed of me, and so, I witnessed whenever appropriate. At work and at school, people almost always said something positive in return and I rarely, if ever, received criticism for it.

Now that I am Hoho no mo', when I speak of my evil JW past, I hear what people really think of them. Co-workers and clients have used words like antisocial, anti-government, toddler-spankers, masters of brainwashing, obsessive, exclusive, family-destroyers, ignorant, masogynists, uneducated. . .

Lessons: 1) I have learned that when I was a JW, people were just being nice, and so they said nice things. People are generally nice.

2) People are also generally Not Stupid and saw what a mess the JWs are long before I did.